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5 Common Phrases Manipulators Use And How To Defuse Them

Shadé Zahrai, Ph.D., spent a decade advising Fortune 500 companies as a behavioral researcher. She says that if you find yourself in conversation with a manipulator, stay steady, don’t over-explain, and hold your position.
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5 Common Phrases Manipulators Use And How To Defuse Them

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